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Beyond the reach
B= on My A to Z of love There was a time when I felt lost in a sea of hopeless action, moving, searching, reaching, yet without trust. I was looking for something beyond myself. Something that would reconnect me to love, to family, to Source, to the deeper feeling that life was holding me. I could feel there was more to life, but I could not always feel my connection to it. I reached outward for the missing piece. I looked for love in the places where I wanted to feel connect
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Jul 232 min read
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Releasing the Pattern of Working Hard
You know that feeling when you're sick and tired of being sick and tired? When you're caught in the same loop, replaying the same story, trying harder, pushing harder, yet somehow ending up exactly where you started? ๐ช๐๐ ๐๐ป ๐๐ฝ๐ ๐ป๐พ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ผ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ถ๐๐๐๐น ๐๐ ๐พ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐
๐ ๐๐ฝ๐ถ๐ ๐ธ๐๐ธ๐๐ ๐๐ถ๐ ๐ถ ๐๐พ๐๐
๐๐ ๐๐๐ถ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐ป๐๐๐ ๐ฟ๐๐๐พ๐๐ ๐ป๐ถ๐: "I release the pattern in me that has created this." Those words stayed with me
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Jun 93 min read
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Turning Pain Into Purpose
There was a time in my life when darkness felt heavier than hope. I lived in a place of despair so deep that I couldnโt see beyond it. I wasnโt searching to become the โbest versionโ of myself. I simply wanted to believe there might be more to life than the emptiness I was living in. I felt vulnerable, lonely, broken, and lost. Even surrounded by people, I felt completely alone inside my pain. What made it even harder was the silence. I didnโt know how to open up about how da
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Jun 12 min read
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Emotional Eating, Anxiety and Self-Sabotage
How Childhood Trauma, Resentment and Emotional Pain Keep Us Stuck The Hidden Need to Stay Hurt Sometimes we hold onto suffering because a part of us still wants others to understand how deeply we were hurt. I spent years trapped in patterns of emotional pain, resentment, anxiety and self-soothing through food โ not because I wanted to suffer, but because my wounded inner child still needed comfort, validation and safety. It was only when I recognised the pattern that I realis
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May 234 min read
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Identity Disruption
๐พ๐ ๐๐๐๐๐, ๐ข๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ ๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐๐. Youโre capable. Thoughtful. Emotionally aware. ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐๐ ๐๐๐๐ข ๐๐. But underneath? ๐๐ค๐ช๐ง ๐ข๐๐ฃ๐ ๐๐ค๐๐จ๐ฃโ๐ฉ ๐จ๐ฌ๐๐ฉ๐๐ ๐ค๐๐. You replay conversations. Second guess decisions. ๐น๐๐๐ ๐ถ ๐ธ๐๐๐๐๐ถ๐๐ ๐ฝ๐๐ ๐๐ป ๐ถ๐๐๐พ๐๐๐ ๐๐๐ ๐ธ๐ถ๐โ๐ ๐๐๐
๐๐ถ๐พ๐. and the hardest part? ๐ You know how capable you areโฆ so why does it feel like this? This is the space I work in. No
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May 51 min read
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Making Choices That Actually Fit.
You know when the mind is racing and so many ideas are getting in the way? Some of us overthink everything. We end up feeling overwhelmed and emotionally drained โ sometimes before we even get out of bed. We can see the bigger picture so clearly for others, yet when it comes to settling our own body, our own nervous system, and making a choice that feels congruent with our desires, everything becomes harder. We doubt ourselves. We secondโguess. We overthink. And then we stay
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May 34 min read
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Empower Yourself: Building Confidence Through Healing
Confidence is not just a trait; it is a skill that can be developed and nurtured over time. Many people struggle with self-doubt and insecurity, often stemming from past experiences or trauma. However, healing is a powerful tool that can help you build the confidence you need to thrive in life. In this blog post, we will explore various methods to empower yourself through healing, ultimately leading to greater self-confidence. Understanding the Connection Between Healing and
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Mar 164 min read
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Release Anxiety: Tips for Finding Inner Calm
Anxiety can feel like an unwelcome guest that overstays its welcome. It creeps in during moments of stillness, often triggered by the pressures of daily life. Whether it's the anticipation of an upcoming event, the weight of responsibilities, or the fear of the unknown, anxiety can disrupt our peace and make it challenging to find inner calm. Fortunately, there are effective strategies to help manage and reduce anxiety, allowing us to reclaim our sense of tranquility. Underst
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Mar 164 min read
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Transform Trauma Into Strength: Healing Strategies Revealed
Trauma can feel like an insurmountable obstacle, leaving individuals feeling lost and overwhelmed. Yet, within the depths of pain lies the potential for profound transformation. The journey from trauma to strength is not only possible but can lead to a more resilient and empowered self. In this blog post, we will explore effective healing strategies that can help you turn your trauma into strength. Understanding Trauma Trauma is a deeply distressing experience that can have l
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Mar 164 min read
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